During a season of my life, filled with desperation, I had a crush on a guy who I thought was out of my league. He is handsome(I’ve got to give him some credit), he is mysterious, he goes to church– he had what I thought was the total package. This was 2016. Now two years later, I realize that I can do better.
The enemy has plans for those that are desperate. I found out that he just liked me as a friend, but to be honest, I can do better.
It has been 2 years since that crush, but during this season of my life, I am learning that as a women, I am the prize. Proverbs 18:25 states that he who finds a wife finds a good thing. It my my job to grow in wisdom and to chase after the things of God. This young man never stays after church to fellowship and walks around like he is better than everyone else. I do not want a man who goes to church, but who serves the living God.
To my sister in Christ. If there is a guy in church who does that see the beauty of Christ in you, do not blame yourself. Does he serve God? Does he fellowship? Make sure that your desperation does not lead you to settle for a boy that goes to church.